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10 Reasons Your Marriage Intimacy is Stagnant

Posted by on Mar 4, 2019 in Uncategorized | 0 comments

10 Reasons Your Marriage Intimacy is Stagnant

There may be several reasons you and your spouse might be stagnant in the intimacy department. In fact, you may have tried to ignite your (spiritual, emotional and sexual) oneness in the past, but then it quickly cooled off. We call it getting STUCK! Over the last 14 years, we’ve heard the reasons below from the couples in our coaching practice. See if you can relate to any of them: My spouse doesn’t see the value of intimacy as I doWe can’t find the time; we’re both too busy.One or both of us gets disrupted by a current or...

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Married Christians Should be Having the Best Sex on the Planet

Posted by on Jan 1, 2019 in Uncategorized | 0 comments

Married Christians Should be Having the Best Sex on the Planet

Have you ever wondered why married Christians should have the best sex on the planet? Or maybe you haven’t wondered and we’ve ignited an interest. Below are the top 5 reasons we believe Christian’s should have the best sex on the planet! 1. Because they’re the only ones that can be “naked and unashamed” in front of their spouse the way God originally designed in the Garden of Eden. That means the wife doesn’t worry about cellulite or her butt looking too big, and the husband doesn’t worry about...

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Sex Everyday???

Posted by on Dec 18, 2018 in Uncategorized | 0 comments

Sex Everyday???

Q: My husband and I at times hit some dry spots in our sex lives. I found your site and found some toys and things are going in the right direction. We have five kids so, there are times when I get very dry and sometimes the foreplay is what I need, and sometimes I need to get right down to business. Getting to the point, I have been seeing where couples have been having sex for various lengths of time, like 30 days, 60 days or more every day. I would like to try maybe even a week straight with my husband and see how that goes, but...

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Clinical Christian Sex Protocols

Posted by on Nov 2, 2018 in featured | 0 comments

Clinical Christian Sex Protocols

“What are At-Home Clinical Protocols and what problems do they address?” At-Home Clinical Protocols are clinical sex therapy “sensate-focus” exercises that we have Christianized that lead married couples step-by-step to deal with desire discrepancies between them or infuse marriage intimacy with having sex God’s way (oneness, playfulness, romance and passion) which is called “Divine Desire.” The protocols are designed for a couple to enjoy three “sensate focus” experiences—also referred to in our marriage ministry as “Intimacy...

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Intimacy With God

Posted by on Aug 3, 2018 in featured | 0 comments

Intimacy With God

Jesus is the Only Way Back To Being Naked and Unashamed! What the Lord originally intended for our human sexuality is what Adam and Eve had before The Fall. This is what we so desperately need and want. This is the lure of virgin sex. But Adam’s sin and Eve’s deception changed us all to where we’re all ashamed of being naked!  The deadly concept of shame entered them and consequently the entire human race. Shame is the life that I (Bill) was born into. My own family promoted this shame through a series of...

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Basic Instincts: Dealing with Sexual Desire and Guilt

Posted by on May 12, 2018 in Uncategorized | 0 comments

Basic Instincts: Dealing with Sexual Desire and Guilt

   An interview Azusa Pacific University did with us about singles handling their sexual desires and still honor God. Collide Magazine Feb 29, 2012 Photo by Brandon Hook Article by Chelsea Johnson, staff writer | English major   Christian experts say sexual desires are normal, but how we choose to respond to these urges should reflect our faith. In January, psychologist Dr. Darrel Ray released a book titled “Sex and God: How Religion Distorts Sexuality” that reveals the results of his 2011 survey, “Sex and Secularism” with...

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Try the “Oneness Hold” Intimacy Experience

Posted by on Apr 7, 2018 in Intimacy Experiences | 0 comments

Try the “Oneness Hold” Intimacy Experience

People don’t get married to be celibate! In fact, coming together as “one flesh” (emotionally, spiritually and then physically) is hopefully the foundation of your marriage, or will be the foundation of your future marriage. Why? Because both of you complete the image of God as masculine and feminine souls when you become “one flesh.” This “oneness” is also a glorious picture of the intimate relationship between Christ and His Church. For those reasons, there’s likely to be a huge assault by the enemy over your individual sexuality (if he...

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Help! French Kissing Turns Me Off!

Posted by on Feb 10, 2018 in Kissing | 3 comments

Help! French Kissing Turns Me Off!

Q: My husband loves to French kiss, but I am very turned off by it. He takes good care of his teeth and I’m not worried about germs.  I just think its gross having someone else’s tongue and saliva in my mouth.  Since it is important to him, how can we make it more enjoyable for the both of us?A: Yep, all of lovemaking is messy! There are tongues, saliva, semen, sweat, vaginal secretions, not to mention unappealing noises and body contortions. It does take a sense of humor to engage in the messiness and then associate...

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Wallet-Friendly Date Ideas

Posted by on Feb 8, 2018 in Dates | 2 comments

Wallet-Friendly Date Ideas

Bill and I keep a Romance Calendar to help us plan out weekly dates for the coming year. To help us plan, we have weekly themes. For example, the first week of every month, we plan a cheap date. The second week of every month, we plan a romantic date. The third week a sexy date. The fourth week of the month, we plan an artsy-fartsy date or a group date with other couples and friends. Below you’ll find a list of 39 cheap date ideas. But before you get started, here’s a tip for the guys: Whatever you decide to do, men, make it feel like a real...

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Christian Sex Experts want to Redeem Duggar Tragedy

Posted by on May 27, 2015 in Uncategorized | 0 comments

Christian Sex Experts want to Redeem Duggar Tragedy

On May 21, 2015, a police report went public revealing that Josh Duggar, the oldest child on the reality TV show 19 Kids and Counting had been accused of inappropriately touching five girls when he was 14 years old. The report dates back to 2006, and describes numerous accounts of sexual assault and forcible fondling. Our hearts grieved when we heard about this, but we weren’t shocked either! Neither have we been surprised through the years as we’ve heard about the multitude of other fallen Christians in ministry, including Ted Haggard,...

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